What would you do if you find porn in your partner’s computer?
By Arnab on May 30, 2008 in Computer, Internet, Life
Porn and/or adult industries are booming. More and more we are exposed to adult materials everywhere. The things that were considered “inappropriate” like a decade back is considered okay now. We have various movies and books coming out encouraging the art of female nudity and sexuality. Da Vinci Code directly talked about sexual intercourse as being a spiritual uplifting moment. Dan Brown compared the orgasm period as being the period of spiritual liberation because at the time of orgasm you actually differentiate your mind from outside the world. That’s a VERY interesting analysis.
Anyways, my point is that more and more this is going to become an issue. Since internet so nicely connect us to everywhere porn is becoming easily accessible. How do you think a woman should respond if she finds porn in her husband’s computer? I personally have no idea. I have seen that many of my friends watch porn when they are stressed out or something. They watch to take their minds off stress through immediate pleasure. For instance, when we are stressed out a lot of us tend to eat a lot. It’s just your brain trying to decrease the load through alternative ways. However, excessive pornography by anyone would mean that he is suffering from some kind of disability and should be treated.
Do you think a woman should be more considerate when they find porn or should they be angry. What do you think? I am not a woman so I don’t know. If I find porn in my GF or wife’s computer I wouldn’t mind. Is it the same for you? Would you mind if you find porn in your girlfriend’s computer?
Wow, never thought I would come across this kinda topic, Anyway it was interesting to read.
Hey let me share a view, m too not a female, so no idea about their thinking.
Since we too watch and keep some porn’s then why not they, they too have theirs interests but sometimes exceptional.
gedet basumatary | Jun 1, 2008 | Reply
Yap. Most of the females actually also watch porn. However, the society prohibits sexual expression from women and therefore, they don’t speak about that out in public.
admin | Jun 1, 2008 | Reply
I stumbled across this….and thought I would pipe in.
I have a different view. I dont think that most women watch porn because they want to…They watch porn because their significant others want them to and they’re so afraid of being alone, they do it. They still feel degraded, but dont have the guts to say so. I personally hate porn…I hate the fact that my fiance looks at porn, it hurts my feelings, makes me feel like he’s cheating on me, and I find in degrading. My questions is……is it so hard to give up porn….if you love someone, and they dont want you watching it, is it really that hard?
k | Jul 30, 2008 | Reply
why do ppl watch porn???
like it sucks, whats so fun about watching some ppl have sex???
i dont get it, i have lots of friends that watch it. I have seen it once, found it stupid never did again.
James | Nov 20, 2008 | Reply
My boyfreind was watching porn and he knew that i knew. I was very upset about this and i was very hurt, becasue i felt like i wasnt wanter anymore and liek he had cheated on me becuase those people in that porn had given him the same feeling that i had given him during our intamate time and that is basically the same as haveing sex with someone else. I was very upset and i told my bf about how hurt i was and he said he was sorry and would not do it again. I still hurt when i think about it but i guess its an open wound and is goign to take time to heal. Also i woudl like to say that i left my faith to be with my boy freind, for lots of compex reasons and then i watched the vidieo and the lady was talking about going to God with this hurt first and she is so right because he is the healer or hearts. It was kind of ironc asi have felt god calling me back the past few months.
God bless
hannah
xxx
Hannah-Rose | Dec 5, 2008 | Reply
- God was once as sick as porn is considered now.
- “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you and you win”, M.K.Gandhi
- NO ONE knew Salman Rushdie before Iranian leader put a death sentence him.
- “Any publicity is good publicity”
- You might have childhood memories of the message “….viewer discretion is advised” on tv. And it was most likely that u watched the show with the message.
JUST FRIGGIN LET HIM DO IT. THE MORE U TABOO SOMETHING THE MORE HE WANTS TO DO IT.
Anonymous | Jun 30, 2009 | Reply
I can’t anything without my wife, she don’t like porn.
Panama abogados | Dec 9, 2011 | Reply